March 5 – How did they meet? You’ve documented marriages, now, go back a bit. Do you know the story of how your parents met? Your grandparents?
I asked my Mum about whether she knew of how her parents met or how my Dad’s parents met but she does not know any details! Apart from my 100 year old Aunt Lucy, there really is no-one else I can ask anything regarding my grandparents on either side of the family.
But, although I knew some of the details of how my parents met, I asked Mum to tell me something of how she and my dear Dad met. She happily chatted about their meeting.
She was working in an office as an accountancy clerk and my Dad came to work there as an electrician, with some other men, doing various things in the offices. They worked there for a number of days and obviously Mum and Dad started chatting to each other. It seems my Dad kidded my Mum on by telling her he was married with five children and Mum thought “oooh, I wouldn’t marry him”! (I have no idea why Dad pretended this and neither does my Mum)!! Mum had stopped seeing her last boyfried seven months before meeting my Dad and seemingly she was still very unhappy at this situation and must have told my Dad about it.
He also kidded her on saying that of course she will never meet someone else as all she could think of was the ex boyfriend. At the end of each day, my Dad would wait for my Mum and walk her home from the office, so they chatted, and chatted and then after a while they stopped off for a cup of tea in a restaurant and chatted and chatted and so it went on from there. They obviously started seeing each other as a couple and eventually married and had three children. They were still together until the sad loss of my dear Dad when he was aged 58.